apparently,

my problem is that I am too damned dependable I can be relied on to do all the work when other people can't be trusted.

my momma told me

Action is a great restorer and builder of confidence.

Inaction is not only the result, but the cause, of fear.

Perhaps the action you take will be successful;

Perhaps different action or adjustments will have to follow.

But any action is better than no action at all.



-- Norman Vincent Peale